SO WHAT IF I WANT TO BE A MODEL?

When i was growing up, i was the tallest amongest my friends and i used to enter beauty pageants and win them. one of the judges suggested i should be a professional model and even when i was growing peopla were like "Mamela you should be a model, your body is perfect and you height too". ever since then i got interested in the modeling world and i saw myself in one of the magazines, people looking at me in catalogues and being famous. it was my dream and if i did not make it in the modelling world i will some how be in the media.

i love the camera and i know that i was one of the photogenic people who knew exactly what to do in front of the camera and i was not show at all. in any chance that i get, i will dress up, walk around my house and ask my friends to take pictures of me and i will pose and pose till they get bored. i am the type of person that loves fashion
this is what being  model means to me:

• it is all about confidence
• being comfortable
• being happy
• enjoying what you doing
• being fashionable

IF I WERE THE BOSS

uhmmmmmm, "IF I WERE THE BOSS" everybody wants to be a boss, we all that position at a certain stage of our lifes and we all have certain things we are going to do when we reach that stage.Iif I were the BOSS......

Being a BOSS is a very high and respected position,a lot is demanded from a boss and alot is seen from a boss. If the boss is very active, deadline kind of person, the workers will follow the boss's footstep. Now if I were the boss will have the following characteristics: psychologist, a friend, an inspiration, disciplinarian, an organiser, technician, a motivator and a communicator.As I said before a boss is someone follow co-workers look up to and they follow my footsteps, if i treat them right and motibate them they will work hard and be productive.If I were the boss I will be a role model.

Being a boss is a cool thing and an awesome but I will try to be one of those fun bosses so that my follow workers will open up to me and feel free to tell me or ask me anything that they need to.Need make sure that I know my wokers personally for example know their names and not just call them by "mr or miss" and make sure that i know their weakness and strengths too.

THAT'S IF I WERE A BOSS

VALENTINES DAY/ LOVE

In high school we were given topics to choose from to present in our presentation class, and by like I chose Valentines Day. I had to research about about Valentines Day, why are we celebrating Valentines day, who is Valentines day etc.. When i researched , I saw that Valentine was actually a person and that valentine was actually about love.

Ever since that day I have always wondered exactly, exactly what is love and why do we love. I listen to individual saying I love my boyfriend, family and so forth and I just wanted to really know and I got curious as to what people had to say when they are asked what is love.

On Valentines Day, students at CPUT were given a chance to write what they think is love; some said love is money,some said love is love,it is care,it is God, some even asked if Love is ever enough and some wrote I do not know what is love.
 According to Love  Session website, this is what love is: Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.  
Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.   A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all...... All I know is..... WE ALL NEED LOVE. xoxo

Two people come out of a building and into a story.

IT WAS ONLY A COUPLE WALKING OUT OF THE BUILDING, BUT TO HER SURPRISE.......



A couple living at the SIX Flat, everyday around about six thirty when they have relaxed after coming back from work usually they take a walk to the Gardens and jog back. this particular day the boyfriend had planed something for his girlfriend and wanted to surprise him.

He came back early from work to prepare the little something so that it would be perfect for his girlfriend. they have been together for about seven years and the boyfriend thought it was about time he moved on to the next "step" and surprise his girlfriend that he really loved.

As they walked out of the Six building,not knowing that the girlfriend was walking into a story that one day she will tell her children. as they walked out of the building, her boyfriend had organised a surprised for her, he had organised a group of singers to sing as they walked out of the building. Banners were raised as they walked out and singing in the background happened and the last banner that was raised wrote " will you marry me, Ayanda?" she could not believe it and that day she never forget.

Two people walked out of a building and into a story and this was Ayanda's story as to how her boyfriend engaged to her......

LAUGHING...... THE BEST MEDICINE

LAUGHING.....HAHAHAHAH, THE BEST MEDICINE. We all love to laugh, because when we love we happy and our faces relax. I  will be pointing out some important facts as to why is Laughing good for you.
According to Paul E. McGhee a doctor, Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress, pain, and conflict. Nothing works faster or more dependably to bring your mind and body back into balance than a good laugh. Humor lightens your burdens, inspires hopes, connects you to others, and keeps you grounded, focused, and alert.

According to Rob Mansfield,(http://www.goodtoknow.co.uk/health/179039/10-reasons-why-laughing-is-good-for-you) laughing can improve your health. Laughing is good because of the following:

• Laughter boost your immune system
• Laughter improves your social life
• laughter relieves pain
• laughter helps relieve depression
• laughter boost your relationship
• Laughter protects your heart
• laughter lowers your blood pressure
• laughter improves your breathing
• laughter helps you lose weight

it helps to laugh a little as you can see that laughing is not just laughing but it is the best medication as it results to improving your health. when laughter is shared it binds people together improving lots of things in a relationship and friendship.


GO AHEAD AND LAUGH.

How hard is it to follow instruction?

I ask the question again, "how hard is it to follow instructions".... Actuall following instruction is not that hard, it all about having to listen to what you are told to do and make sure you take the important key points. As we all know that listening is a skill and all we have to do is to learn to listen attentively and with understanding. if you do not understand what you are instructed to do, all you have to do is to ask about the instruction and in that way you will maybe follow the instruction. and this is what i think about "how ahrd is it to follow instruction".

According to Marian Pike, a senior Media Studies Lecturer at the Cape Peninsula University of Technology, following instruction is actually hard, she states whether you young or old follwing instruction is hard . There is a strong link between not following instructions and critical thinking.  It is clear to me that critical thinking and blind obedience are mutually exclusive. (February 10, 2010)

So for you to follwo instructions properly you have to think very carefully and not just think, but critical thinking and out of the box and try to use your brain to its full capacity. in order for the instructions to be follwed and done properly the sender must speak in simple english and know his or her audience too.

on and all,it is not hard to follow instructions all you need to do is to listen attentively, ask questions, think critically and amke sure you UNDERSTAND THE INSRUCTIONS.